There are so many songs, movies, and so many other things that talk about soul mates. They say that there is only one person for everyone on this planet. Well I think this is somewhat true, I think that people can be perfect for each other but I don’t think that there is only one person for each person. My thought is that no one is perfect for anyone else, now don’t get my words mixed up. By this I mean no two people are born perfect for each other or are even perfect for each other when they meet. I think that the only way for two people to be perfect for each other is to adapt to each other.
People have things there good at and things there bad at. Things they do very well and things they never do well no matter how hard they try. And that’s where the adapting to each other comes in the things your very good at you simple get better and help you partner with that and the things your bad at you look to you partner for help. By doing this after a while you will see that you and your partner become perfect for each other almost acting like one person. Maybe most important thing about this is that this causes you to need each other and not just want each other.
For this reason I think people are unhappy in their relationships because they want to be able to do everything on their own and if you do that you will never be in a happy relationship cause what is the point in being in a relationship if you do everything on your own. Yes they are things that you should do on your own but they are many things that you should have help with or even need help with. Because when you know you need someone it makes losing them much harder, not only that but it will make you think more before you do things so you don’t do something that will cause you to loses that person.
Well that’s just what I think, but I don’t think I’m wrong.
